Nationally renowned poet, performer, and essayist Leah Lakshmi Piepzna-Samarasinha will be in store this Saturday, November 5th at 5pm to discuss and sign copies of her new book The Revolution Starts at Home: Confronting Intimate Violence in Activist Communities.

“The extent of the violence affecting our communities is staggering. Nearly one in three women in the United States will experience intimate violence in her lifetime. And while intimate violence affects relationships across the sexuality and gender spectrums, the likelihood of isolation and irreparable harm, including death, is even greater within LGBTQI communities. To effectively resist violence out there—in the prison system, on militarized borders, or other clear encounters with “the system”—we must challenge how it is reproduced right where we live. It’s one thing when the perpetrator is the police, the state, or someone we don’t know. It’s quite another when that person is someone we call a friend, lover, and trusted ally…Fearless, tough-minded, and ultimately loving, The Revolution Starts at Home offers life-saving alternatives for ensuring survivor safety while building a road toward a revolution where no one is left behind.” – review INCITE! Women Of Color Against Violence [ed. note - you should be reading this blog]
Too often, social justice-affiliated groups assume that all members promote the same principles in their personal lives that they do in their political lives: human dignity, solidarity and peace. Yet given the staggering statistics on the global prevalence of sexual assault, domestic violence and workplace harassment, it would be naïve to assume that activists are immune to such problems. And for many marginalized communities–including undocumented immigrants, sex workers, and LGBT groups, among others–the police and criminal courts are not always viewed as a safe course for finding justice. The Revolution Starts at Home offers alternative ways for communities to prioritize survivors and address rape, assault, domestic violence and sexual harassment.
- review by Allison McCarthy in Ms Magazine.
“Attempts to deal with intimate partner violence for able-bodied folk are pretty woefully inadequate. However, as Peggy Munson testifies during this searing chapter in ‘The Revolution Starts at Home: Confronting Intimate Partner Violence Within Activist Communities’, attempts to deal with disabled persons who are surviving intimate partner violence are in many ways non-existent and at best are sadly lacking in many areas.”
review by UnusualMusic on Alas, A Blog {ed. note – yet another blog you should be reading]
What happens when violence is enacted in deemed safe spaces? When the same partner that might hit you or not take no for an answer, is the one staffing the anti-police brutality group? When your community’s distrust in the criminal justice and legal system means either submitting to the very same system you are working against or taking justice into your hands?
…the book explores that even with the best intentions, the best actions and behind the most radical and progressive of politics, the systems that activists work so hard to dismantle are often buried inside of all of us. The book focuses on multiple forms of abuse, with diverse voices that stretch beyond the gamut of atypical representations of what abuse victims look like. What has always been referred to as the “open secret,” the book breaks down the taboos surrounding abuse in romantic, personal and activist relationships that not only gives results, but also does so in a way that aims not to isolate the abused and the abuser.
review by Coco Papy in Persephone Magazine
Hope to see you here!